If we desire to be intentional parents then that means that we must approach our parenting with intention. We must have a design or plan in mind regarding our parenting goals or beliefs. We must not go about our days as mothers (or parents) haphazardly, but rather with a clear intention and focus on our children and our interactions with them.
Train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not turn from it.
Proverbs 22:6
For most of us, our children will only live under our roofs for 18-years. That is not to say our job as parents will end when they turn 18, but it certainly means that we have a huge job to do in their first 18 years of life. That job, in my opinion, is to prepare our children for independent life. Whether that be when they leave our home for college, marriage, or simply to pursue their own dreams and occupations.
Have you ever sat down and thought about what you want to make sure you teach your children before they leave your home?
In the early years most parents have clear child-training goals: Sitting, crawling, walking, talking, feeding themselves, dressing themselves, potty training etc. Once the fundamental basics are done, most parents don’t have a clear picture of what they want to teach their children. Are you one of those parents?
KellyTeaches says
This is a great list, with a few things on it that I still don't know how to do at 26 oops 🙂
It's funny how a lot of parents are now relying on schools to teach their children these things now. I can't tell you how often I have parents ask me if we teach children their phone numbers… um, no? Can you imagine how hard it would be to teach 22 kids their 22 different phone numbers? Meanwhile at home, it would be a lot easier!
Kara says
Enjoying your posts! I just started reading the Life Skills book by Field because my 3 & 5 yr old need to start learning to do new things. I have some great ideas now how to start the process.
Warren Baldwin says
Another good post.
Lois of HisFireKids.com says
Thanks for this one too…
My trick is, to be honest… not feeling overwhelmed as I do this list of my 6 kids….
The 6 pieces of paper seem like alot…GRACE GRACE again=)